USB soldering iron test and teardown [video]
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His dayjob involves building awesome bespoke electronics, and his vlog has teardowns of heaps of really unique items.
Clive/Dave/Mike make up the entirety of my YouTube electronics subscriptions.
You should try using a multimeter!
I don't really know how to answer their question.
Does anyone know what I should tell them for future reference if these things keep coming up?
When you want to move more into networking, step up to the Raspberry Pi [2], which runs Linux and also includes digital GPIO pins.
If you want to learn networking at an Internet of Things level, look at the Spark Photon (basically an ARM dev board with a TI CC3000 WiFi module). It's only $19. The documentation is fantastic, hence I would recommend it over say the ESP2866 which is super cheap but a bit more... hacky.
It's not the current that makes it hot, it's how the current flows through it.
EDIT: It's basically about resistance (the things that get hot are the resistors): https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Electric_heating
EDIT2: I'm not an electronics person either. Please feel free to correct me if I'm grossly misrepresenting how things work.
Power (and therefore heat) is current squared times resistance, or equivalently voltage drop times current. A copper wire or PCB trace has very low resistance, and a soldering iron tip or thin tungsten filament has high resistance, so one stays cool while the other gets hot.
In the end you need to balance the pros and cons and see which comes up on top in your particular use case.
Personally, for my use cases (field repair of RC gear), I might buy one after this review.