Nearly half of Americans would have trouble finding $400 to pay for an emergency
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> We have no retirement savings, because we emptied a small 401(k) to pay for our younger daughter’s wedding.
The author isn't mysteriously broke. Money is not being stolen from his account. Rather, he's spending a lot of money on things which he believes are necessities (like paying for a child's wedding), and sacrificing a lot of things which he believes is optional (like having retirement savings). Some would suggest both categorizations are wrong.
Also:
> we believed [our children] had earned the right to attend good universities
That's actually not how university tuition works, and the rhetorical tricks being deployed here leave me cold. Your daughters did not have the right to attend those expensive private universities; they had the privilege of doing so, because you spent a lot of money you didn't really have to obtain that privilege for them. Which is awesome for them! No doubt it will benefit them (which is why you paid all that money, I imagine). But it's not entirely clear to me how "middle class" paying for your children to go to some of the most expensive schools in the world really is?
> The author isn't mysteriously broke. Money is not being stolen from his account. Rather, he's spending a lot of money on things which he believes are necessities (like paying for a child's wedding), and sacrificing a lot of things which he believes is optional (like having retirement savings). Some would suggest both categorizations are wrong.
Bingo.
As much as I think of social security as a ponzi scheme, one thing I do like about it is that it forces people to contribute and they can't touch their contributions. Sure you might only get $.60 back for every dollar you throw in there but hey at least you'll get something.
It's sad to say it, but the majority of people are not financially savvy enough to make sound decisions. Left to their own devices most people wouldn't save diddly squat, work till they're fired, then be destitute. And they probably won't have kids to take care of them anymore either because "Kids are expensive ... you can't afford that!".
Not saying people have no responsibility, but the odds are kind of stacked against you - it is an uphill battle to survive.
Instead, it was "invested" in government bonds, which is equivalent to saying, "oh, I'll just raise the money later". But that's courting disaster: if you have these unfunded obligations that come due, you have to gore an increasingly difficult amount of taxes out of your base, which can become rapidly impossible if and when people start fleeing from the burden.
We could have kept the forced savings but given people back more than a real dollar per dollar forced to contribute.
The article strikes a chord with me, because the author exhibits some of the same thinking as my own parents. They paid for my brother and I to go to college, for which we are very grateful. But they also say that the giant house in an expensive zip code, the foreign cars, etc, are "for us" using some nebulous baby boomer thinking like "if you want to be somebody, you have to look like somebody."
Far be it for me to judge my parents' choices. But recently, my dad quit his job and started a business. At that time, he definitely wished he had built up more of a runway.
Even here, though, there's an easy trade-off. Expensive house in good public school catchment, or cheap house + private school. But, don't do both if you're stretched.
[1] e.g. like much of Europe, let you go where you're accepted, regardless of where you live, and let the public funds follow you
The nightmare many are facing is that it doesn't benefit them. Regardless of what self improvement one may receive from their degree, certain degrees are being awarded at a faster rate than the economy demands them, depressing wages for those who can use that degree to get a job and resulting in many who can't use that degree to get a job.
So, yes, there is some blame to be apportioned for the spending habits. However, there is also the systemic problem of real incomes declining significantly, with major life costs (housing, education, medical, taxation) increasing dramatically:
https://research.stlouisfed.org/fred2/graph/fredgraph.png?wi...
This problem is significantly worse if you use the old CPI, which some people feel is more honest:
http://www.soundmoneyproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/...
Either way, the decline in real wages in the face of rising major life costs is a major contributor to the increasingly precarious position of many middle class families.
I have more respect for someone who blows all their money on "hookers and blow" (or whatever their personal equivalent is) than keeping up with the Jones. If you're gonna flush your wad of cash down the toilet, pick your own stall!
I blow my money on charity medical relief in impoverished regions, not fancily-plated food.
And you can still go to college, but go to a state college and live at home. The con these private universities are pulling on the middle class is something for the history books. They sell this "university lifestyle" to impressionable, naive high schoolers who then throw themselves (or parents) into stupid amounts of debt just to live the lifestyle.
Stanford has some fantastic opportunities, sure. But those opportunities come with significant opportunity costs (at the very least, financially). For some, it is better to attend a state school; the mental calculus involved in making this decision is rather difficult for an 18 year old and his/her family, especially with all of the noise that surrounds the college admissions process.
If a kid is going to be a success, they'll be a success. Multiple studies support this: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/07/20/where-you-go-to-col...
Disclaimer: I'm a proud Penn State alum, which was (at the time) my safety school. Just my $0.02.
As a mental exercise, I'm imagining a product that would, given a number of inputs, produce a bayesian curve of the applicant's possible outcomes, and then selects the best school for that applicant. While developing this product sounds like a fun side project, I can't imagine it gaining traction, because the aforementioned groups would get upset (read: not pay) that Prestigious U is not the best choice for Johnny, rather, Mid-Atlantic Middle College is. It would be difficult to get the secondary actors in the process to pay as well, because there is value generated for them by maintaining process homeostasis.
Current thinking would suggest that I should have gone to, say, Bucknell over Penn State (again, I understand n=1 here, and I am not measuring my level of selective perception), whereas I am very happy with the course of events and think it produced the best outcome. I have to believe there is some grain of truth to my line of thinking and a potential for value generation in the decision aspect of college admissions.
All of which seemed relevant to me since the author of TFA was making sacrifices to send his girls to Emory & Stanford.
But when people talk about wastefully expensive private schools, they really mean schools that have nothing over state schools but the price tag: GWU, George Mason, American, and the like. Combine that with a non-reliably-marketable degree like Psychology, Political Science, Communications, or Art History, and the result is disaster.
This doesn't contradict your point that real incomes are declining.
http://www.statista.com/statistics/183995/us-college-enrollm...
http://nces.ed.gov/programs/digest/d13/tables/dt13_302.60.as...
For one thing, top state universities are better schools than the majority of private colleges. They have research programs and a much wider course selection.
However, you didn't explain why. There are, IMO, two reasons:
- maintaining demand by incessant, aspirational media pressure e.g. if you don't have a Cinderella-like wedding costing $100K+, you are a failure (it is the most important day of your life, right? right?)
- easy availability of credit to finance these wants (not needs)
A lot of people believe that a $100K wedding must be better than a $10K one, or a $75K/year college must be better than a state university.
I'd exclude taxes and health care, though. These are a bit different, because you don't really have much of a choice here.
I see it more and more that parents are expected to pay for their children to go to school - which also means that a big part of my loans are probably because of my father's income being counted when I did the FASFA. If the non-dischargability of the loans is based on a lack of finanical history (which I know I'm in the minority but I do feel that's fair), then the applications for financial assistance really shouldn't take it into account unless your parents are actually paying for your school.
My value-system doesn't lump wedding and college together. It seems much more reasonable for parents to sacrifice their own well-being to send their kids to elite schools. The whole wedding thing seems crazy to me, though.
Considering how bad financial distress is for a marriage, it seems like a really terrible idea to stretch yourself for a wedding. There should be (not saying there isn't) no shame in getting married at City Hall, with a few of your closest friends and family. Could be the best marital decision you make, if it puts you on a better financial trajectory.
I went to an unknown stare college, stated at home and got a degree in computer science. After my first three years of working - almost 20 years ago - my salary has been comparable to anyone else's. No one cares what college I graduated from.
I doubt that middle class families in the past routinely had weddings that required the rental of dedicated space and staffing by a dozen or more paid individuals. Maybe you had it in the church and had a potluck afterwards in the basement, or maybe you had it in a large rural backyard.
Of course, before, middle-class people also did not retire for decades and expect to spend that time traveling and not working. They did not expect to drive cars with air conditioning, carry supercomputers in their pocket, watch 200 channels on TV, or live in large air-conditioned suburban homes.
So what has happened is that the perception of "middle class" lifestyle has grown to include considerably more consumption. That's ok. It's just sort of puzzling to read this piece--he seems to say "I've had a good life, I've gotten good things for my kids, I don't have money in the bank, but it's my own fault, so I'm not complaining." Which is nice, but why is that worth reading?
What constitutes 'core human experiences'? There are people in this very forum who think a vacation per year is a very valid human need because 'life happens only once'. So by many a measure 'the trip to vegas' is a 'core human experience'. Plus there is a very think line of difference between a vacation to vegas or grand canyon.
The right way to measure a 'core human experience' is to ask what is the person's highest priority? If you ask me nothing is more important to me than putting food on the table, having clothes to wear, a roof above my head and enough cash for my health expenses when I grow old. That said, now I have to plan my finances accordingly. I can't spend a good chunk on everything else and then complain I don't have enough.
People at all levels of income are faced with 'priorities', this includes millionaires as well.
You're right about those other goods though: if people have to shell out all their discretionary income to cover some minimum baseline in those categories, then that is a solvable problem. Arguably, though, education and housing have become positional (and thus intractable via discretionary income) because people are trying to achieve a relative rank through them, not some baseline of quality.
[0] basically a good that derives its value from its ranking relative to others, not absolute metrics https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Positional_good
My wife and I had a Vegas wedding. Without any hookers or blow. A total of four other people at our wedding; they paid their own way there.
My wife and I used the money we saved on our wedding to help fund the purchase of a house (and all the crazy additional expenses that involves). We're still married 20 years later,
Contrast that with one gal who had a very elaborate wedding, at an expensive venue, with many guests, and who subsequently divorced within a year. What of the "core human experiences" of all the people who attended that misbegotten wedding?
Life comes down to choices. Few people are rich enough to be able to afford everything they may feel entitled to as part of the "middle class".
systemic problem of real incomes declining significantly, with major life costs (housing, education, medical, taxation) increasing dramatically
All that is very true. But it doesn't excuse foolish financial decisions about the events that people do have total control over.
the decline in real wages in the face of rising major life costs is a major contributor to the increasingly precarious position of many middle class families.
Yeah, that and the fact that many people can't grasp the simple concept of saving for a rainy day.
They've sold people that they not only can, but should, live beyond their means.
http://www.businessinsider.com/manhattan-weddings-are-us-mos...
The most active voters are the older groups, and as people like the author reach their elder years with nothing to retire on, they presumably vote in their own best interest.
As it stands now, there are ~$4 trillion dollars[1] in 401k savings. It is currently not being taxed, with the assumption that it will grow during a person's working years, and be taxed when it is withdrawn, as income tax.
However, as people like the author reach a certain age, I am fairly convinced that there will be a significant tax on retirement savings from the responsible folks to pay for those who didn't save appropriately. Politically it's fairly straightforward: we have millionaires who can "afford" to help pay for the less fortunate! This ends up hurting the people who saved so that they could properly afford to send their kids to schools, to be able to go on vacations in their retirement, etc.
As much as the story has been "max out your 401k!", I'm fairly convinced that it's going to end up being a worse deal than people count on. I don't really have a solution other than to "diversify investments", but stories like this do terrify me. I plan for retirement and try to be responsible about how I live my life so that when I choose to retire, I'll be able to enjoy it and spend time with kids/grandkids or golfing/traveling/whatever.
[1] https://www.ici.org/policy/retirement/plan/401k/faqs_401k
Politically, it will be a slam-dunk to tax the crap out of money coming out of Roth IRAs in the future.
Ultimately, you have to be happy that spenders overlay for stuff, and the interest gains on savings are better than the tax hit, and day-to-day financial security makes you feel good and finances better opportunities -- like you can afford to move for a job or whatever.
For those of you who prefer the whistling-past-the-graveyard approach, Christopher Buckley's book 'Boomsday' is hilarious.
Anyone care to share how they are protecting their savings against this increasingly likely prospect?
Yes, definitely.
In addition to all the other diversification advice you can read everywhere, you need to have three pots of savings:
1) pre-tax retirement savings such as traditional 401(k) or traditional IRA
2) post-tax retirement savings such as Roth 401(k) or Roth IRA
3) normal cash and investments, outside of any sort of retirement scheme
Being diversified in that fashion will give you more flexibility to react appropriately to any changes in the tax laws.
And, if you can swing it, you also want some assets that aren't readily visible to the tax man. In decades past, that meant something like a Swiss bank account. Now, perhaps, it might mean something like gold coins.
And there are even more exotic ways to "shelter" your assets. My father, who was displaced by WWII, stressed the value of a good education in a useful field. A malevolent government could confiscate your house and your money, but it couldn't take away what was inside your head.
But the tipping point comes when you have to take too much from present workers for past obligations, and some of them say, "wait, screw this, I'll just take my labor somewhere else", which means they have to tax a bigger incentives, which scares off more workers, and spirals out that way.
Relatedly, I have grave reservations about prodding the entire economy to have a huge nest egg in 401k-eligible investments, which can distort the voting base into favoring government interventions that favor the largest companies over smaller ones that don't get publicly listed, changing the playing field.
In my friend group, our incomes vary by about a factor of 5. We all spend about the same, though. Which means those that are making more are much more comfortable, putting money away for a rainy day.
In contrast, a college friend that keeps in touch makes more than any of us, but she likes to lease new cars every three years, and she must spend money on the poshest pre-school in the area, and she is shocked to hear about people saving $2/3/5k a month. That's money that could be spent!
I don't think I have a point here. I just can't wrap my mind around people making $150k and not being able to "raise $2000" in a month's time.
A person making $150k who has no savings/retirement/etc is a someone with very serious money management problems. In every state in the US, a $150k household income places you above the "middle class."
Source: http://www.businessinsider.com/middle-class-in-every-us-stat...
If you're making $150,000 - it really should not be huge.
>uber to the first bar - 15-20$
>drinks at the first bar - 15$
>several drinks and food at a brewpub or the like - 50$
>nightcap at a bar - 10$
>uber home - 20-25$ (surge pricing, bars closing)
Youve just spent 110$ in a single night out, essentially on a single meal.
rinse and repeat each weekend day, maybe up to 12 times in a month - youre out almost 1500$
That or i know a ton of people paying more than 200$ per month for their car payment. plus insurance thats a good chunk of money!
Theres two grand right there that could have otherwise gone into a retirement account.
"The secret shame of the American Middle Class is that they listen to people telling them 'it's not your fault' too much."
Human tendency is to always find somebody else to fix the blame on.
I know a lot of friends from school who would blame teachers for failing in tests and exams. They didn't get too far in life.
Like school, adults can always blame bankers or some secret cabal in the cellar for their problem instead of having to look inwards.
That's not middle class, that's called living paycheque to paycheque, or hand to mouth.
> In retrospect, of course, my problem was simple: too little income, too many expenses. Credit enabled me to forestall this problem for a time—and also to make it progressively worse—but the root of the problem was deeper. I never figured that I wouldn’t earn enough. Few of us do. I thought I’d done most of the right things.
The article is really about grappling with having "done most of the right things", yet not being able to afford "the right things", as well as the ensuing penalty.
I think the real point the article is missing: The standard-of-living in the US relies on unsustainable spending, compared to the 1990s-2000s. A deeper article might explore why the standard-of-living was being artificially inflated (a credit bubble, with its roots in the 80s). As a bonus article, consider if society turns against debt-as-a-way-of-life (like the generation that lived through the depression) or if the securitization-of-debt market begins to falter. That would be a true horror story.
PS. I think this is one of the meatiest articles to come out on personal finances in a long time, and it's far too meaty for the full discussion it should have (it'll be gone in a day on HCN, way past the 10 minutes or so any of us will spend on it.)
EDIT: Changed the bit about standard-of-living, which distracts the point. Yes real earnings are down, yes the employment ratio is down, yes college is unaffordable. But Total sq ft per house is way up, cell phones are a tech advance, so how you measure standard-of-living turns into another big topic.
For a variety of reasons (easy access to credit, the media, who knows what else) a great many people are living above their means. And that's a big problem.
Is it? Then why does it continue? It's a problem for the debtors, but not for the people and system that encourages, enables, and profits from their bad decisions.
Consumers must consume!
I'm probably lowering the standard of living target reasoning like this, which is not fair to the article which focuses on what middle class should be like, or was in the post-war boom decades. But still it could be a lot worse.
The median household income in the US is ~$55K/yr. Most Americans don't send their kids to private schools or pay for expensive weddings.
He's not trying to keep up with the average American, he's trying to keep up with the upper-class. And guess what? There will always be someone richer than you.
We haven’t taken a vacation in 10 years. [...] We have no retirement savings, [...] We eat out maybe once every two or three months. Though I was a film critic for many years, I seldom go to the movies now.
They're not destitute, but shouldn't most people expect to get at least some of those things more often than that?
The lack of retirement savings seems particularly bad, as the author notes they used their parents' savings to pay for their children's educations. Their children won't be able to do the same.
And as another commenter has noted, it's not just a "woe is me" sob story, the idea is that the author is representative of a secret 47%(!) who are ashamed to admit how badly they're doing. The comparison with impotence seems apt.
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Is private schooling for children worth losing out on the opportunity to eat out as a family of 4 at a good restaurant every week (that's 250 per meal, so $1000 a month)?
Is funding your daughter's wedding (2000-10,000), worth skipping a vacation?
I think being middle-class is all about making choices between giving up luxuries of the body (e.g. resturant food), for luxuries of opportunity (e.g. schooling). If you are rich, you can have both your yatcht and private school. You can go to the country club, and keep a maid at the same time.
Being poor on the other hand is about making choices between necessities like "should we have water or power this week? pick one" or "should our food be nutritious or should we clean our clothes? pick one".
Those numbers struck me as very strange. I've rarely eaten at places that are $62.5/head. But spending just $2000 on a wedding seems low. $10,000 isn't unheard of in the circles I travel in.
We rarely eat out during the week, and we don't usually eat dinner out both Fri AND Sat nights, but the above is fairly typical for us. I don't think it is too atypical for our peers either.
If they're even wanting to have a modest wedding with 80-ish guests nowadays, I can't imagine paying less than $15k (which is why I'm going to try to make it less than 20 people for mine. Hell, I'd be happy with 2).
That being said, I wouldn't want to eat out at a $50/person restaurant with a family of four once every week. You could take them to a bbq or pita or chinese restaurant and they'd eat well for under $15 per person.
I don't really disagree with your main point, just your numbers seem to be bad estimates to me.
The idea of spending $30,000 on a wedding seems insane to me, and it reminds me of the Dave Ramsey quote “If you will live like no one else, later you can live like no one else."
> That being said I personally think that's ridiculous and I'll do my damnedest to try to keep mine under $5k, but I know it won't be easy, and there will have to be many things sacrificed.
My wedding (2 years ago, in the midwest) had about 100 guests and cost us about $5000 total (doesn't include the rehearsal dinner or the bar tab, which our parents covered). There were probably some things that we could have spent even less on, but it would have required us doing more things ourselves. A few things we did that might be different than the norm:
* My wife, mother, and grandmother made many of the decorations themselves
* The reception venue was less expensive because we had the wedding in April, because it wasn't during "wedding season"
* We had the grocery store make our cake for us
* We didn't pay anything for the ceremony location (there are many beautiful public venues that you can book for free)
* My wife chose a dress that was beautiful, but wasn't obscenely expensive. She also recovered about half of the cost by selling it afterwards.
It's kind of funny. I've been to six weddings in the past five years and none of them had over 50 people.
I guess some people just have more friends and family or are under some kind of custom wherein they invite 2nd or 3rd cousins or minor acquaintances to their weddings.
My best friend's wedding was 40 people, total cost to the bride and groom $1000. Location: a beautiful beachhouse owned by his aunt. Food and the such done by the family, and everyone who flew in stayed in houses of relatives. Photography done by my wife, music by his brother.
Save money on your wedding, spent it on your honeymoon.
> I wouldn't want to eat out at a $50/person restaurant with a family of four once every week.
I like exotic food with ingredients and cooking conditions I can't replicate at home, so $50 a plate it is.
> I don't really disagree with your main point, just your numbers seem to be bad estimates to me.
Right :)
That's really the issue at heart. Everyone makes choices that X is worthwhile, and Y isn't worthwhile. Some people choose no luxury at all, save all their money and cash out at 35 to retire.
Oh, come on! When a friend decided to get married, he and his fiancee went downtown and got married by a judge. Just the two of them. They fed each other french fries at the nearby McDonald's. They're still married 30 years later.
And, partially as a result of that frugality, they recently had the enviable problem of how to invest $1,000,000 cash, when they sold their big house after their kids grew up. They're currently living in a simple 3 bedroom, 2 bath tract house because they don't need more.
Another friend also got married downtown by a judge. I was there as best man, there was also a maid of honor. That totals 4 people. That was 1990. They're still married.
Weddings don't have to be expensive.
Maybe so, but that definitely didn't used to be the case, which is pretty much the thrust of the article. Its other point is that the scale of the problem is hidden because people are ashamed to talk about it.
There are always going to be luxuries that you can't afford to indulge in regularly. That's what a luxury is!
Colleges and restaurants didn't used to be luxuries. I didn't fully appreciate that they now are, so this article is eye-opening for me in that respect.
(I'm from the UK where the college setup is different from the US, but it's moving in the same direction, a decade or two behind the curve.)
Similarly, more people are eating out in restaurants more of the time.[1]
I think you have a rosy view of the past that isn't supported by evidence.
1. http://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2015-04-14/americans-...
The big question is how well the middle class is doing today. They did pretty well in the past and the expectation was that things would continue getting better.
(Edit to clarify:) I figured that things are actually still pretty good for many people, but this article's claimed "47% of people can't easily find $400 in an emergency" seems to fly in the face of that.
In my neighborhood, some restaurants are $20 a meal. These places have been in business for over 15 years, and serve decent quality food but only staple ingredients with spices.
The newer resturants that have openned serve fresh imports from another hemisphere away, and start at $50 a plate.
So there's a choice at least here---you can get $10 sushi with tilapia, or you can go get $35 sushi with blowtorch cooked kobi beef.
As I've gotten older, I trend more towards the Kobi beef place myself... and I think that's how it is with most of the middle class. Cheaper choices do exist, but we consider them 'below our standards for a night out' especially considering that age+experience leads to better home cooking.
What makes you say that? I talk to my parents and my grandparents and they all had to sacrifice for their family.
I can't think of a single time in history when people generally had so much disposable income that they didn't need to worry about money.
I'm not sure where he might have sent his kids for K - 8. In any event, people generally move out to Long Island suburbs for great schools. He could have just as well made the sacrifice of using that money for private schools instead on a house in a district that met his standards of schooling, which would have had a much lower NPV via a 30 year fixed mortgage than paying for private school annually. Plus, his house would likely have risen more in value.
It sounds to me like the author might just be a tad more financially illiterate than he should be given his lifestyle.
Spend $100K on a wedding, and then save $15 on a movie a week/two-weeks to make up for the remainder of your life.
Why would you even get into this situation?
My colleagues tease me about my 15 year old car with nearly 300k miles. My peers at work mostly lease BMWs and SUVs. But cars are an expense with a payout worth little to me. (If I was a hotshot salesdude, that trapping of success would have a high value.)
You can't have it all. If you try to do so, you're going to sacrifice something -- and in most cases you sacrifice your future.
Not that I'm blindly hating on BMWs. Love their cars, and I have two of their motorcycles in the garage (one for me, one for the wife). I'll say upfront that my R1200GS is probably the finest motorcycle I've ever owned. But cheap to run it ain't (for example, it apparently needs a $100 set of rear brake pads every 5K miles; no, I didn't drop a zero). If I wanted cheap-to-run, I'd have bought another Honda. "Luxury brand" means it will continue to be a luxury to own even after the initial price is paid off.
If I do buy a car again I'll definitely do more research on reliability repair and service costs.
I'll save you the trouble: Toyota. Boring as hell, and with "boring" come reliability and low maintenance. I seriously worry sometimes that I'm forgetting something on our Scion (a rebadged Toyota Echo) because it so rarely requires attention. And Toyotas have been known for reliability for decades. The old SR22 engine is the stuff of legend. Assuming Hondas are as good as they were 30 years ago when I last owned one, and are as reliable as their modern motorcycles, they would probably be a good bet as well.
My goal for cars is to average $2,000/yr in vehicle cost over its lifetime. I hit a home run with my car, but my wife's minivan will miss the mark. (Because the sliding doors break annually)
That seemed a worthwhile investment to me.
Uhm, it's right in the article that he had to ask them to pay for heating...
Put your own oxygen mask on first. Aviate, navigate, communicate.
When people say these things, I wonder if they are perhaps not thinking about taking drastic action.
For me, when I do disaster planning I think about extra-ordinary measures.
For example, when I was in my 20s if I needed 2000 in the next month I would have planned to at:
- At age 21. Break my lease and move in with my parents. The lease was month-to-month, and would have instantly put an extra $1000 per month in my pocket + food savings.
- At age 25. Break my lease taking a $6000 hit, but that'd be paid in installments over the next 12 months whilst I could certianly find a place that's worth less than $3,000 per month in rent.
- At age 29. AirBnB my house or co-let. It's a good area, I'd be surprised if I couldn't scrounge up $2000 that way fairly fast.
That's just an example of focusing on housing.
Another thing to do in desperate need would be to cut digital communications and sell equipment. Do you have an iPad or Macbook? Can you sell one and use the other? How about a smartphone. Sell it (300+ dollars back) and switch to cheapeer services (maybe around 50-80 back).
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Tl;Dr.
People with $100,000 a year income have assets that they can sell or lease to cover a $2000 transaction, but they answer the question as if thinking "if I change nothing at all, can I come up with $2000".
That's not how budgets work.
I could sell my house and come up with tons of money. That doesn't count. I can also just pay an unexpected $2,000 expense (like my $3,000 unexpected tax bill) out of savings.
The point is that a lot of Americans don't have liquid assets they can use in the case of a minor emergency.
Cars aren't very liquid. You can sell them to a huckster with a lot in the shady part of town for 1/3 of what you could get by putting an ad on Craigslist and waiting a few weeks. If you don't have a few weeks, this is a problem.
These lifestyle adjustments aren't easy, and the way to be good at them is the same as for anything else: practice.
But people don't practice when they are young because they have easy credit. By the time the problems can't be brushed away any more (even with borrowing), they have children, making the decision that much harder. And without practice, they don't even know how to downsize.
There are so many perfectly reasonable things people can do to save money that aren't even considered. What about moving into a small apartment, eating beans and rice, and riding the bus for a few years while you get back on your feet? Sounds bad to a lot of "middle class" people, but I bet it's more pleasant than a downward spiral. And if you do it soon enough, you can get back to a good place quickly.
And I don't buy in to the "whatever college you want" guilt. I'll tell my children they have a guarantee of state school (assuming they get in), or education I Germany (where it's free). Anything else they need to get creative or lucky.
On a micro level, sure you can say maybe send your kids to cheap schools. On a macro level, college costs are getting way out of hand. Private schools should be able to serve more than the 1 percent and the really poor on full rides.
I graduated 10 years ago from an elite private university. It was expensive then, but it's a complete bargain today. Prices are raising much faster than inflation. I'm trying to save a few hundred thousand for each kid for college, but in 16-18 years, that won't go that far.
I'm only going to pay to send my kids to a private school if its a really good one, but I'm not going to tell them there is a whole class of schools they can't go to just because I'm cheap.
I'm not limiting their options. I guess if one of my children is absolutely determined to jump into big time debt to go to Harvard, I probably wouldn't stop them.
But I won't destroy myself financially just because I'm afraid to explain to my children that choices have costs (list price of Harvard is something like $80k/yr). Also, my children are more different in age, so if I go broke on the first one, the next one wouldnt have the same opportunity.
The choice I'm offering is really not a bad one. I'll pay something reasonable, and if they can make up the difference with work and scholarships, great. If they want to do research, they can always go to MIT for grad school.
Also, by the time they go, things might be different. So many people got burned by the "go to whatever college you want, regardless of price" idea that it might shatter the prestige of any private school below ivy league. Or more people might do the first two years at CC before going to university, and that might carry less stigma.
I frequently run in to relatives and bosses and other senior people who complain of not having money or expressing surprise when they learn some one earning far less or doing a job that they think is beneath them makes/has made a good investment. Finally they tend ultimately complain of life being unfair to them. Forgetting the fact that they make 5-6 times more and their state is their own doing.
Yet more I look at their lives, I see a spending pattern that co relates to borderline nonsense. They take vacations because some one else is, and not taking one frequently means losing brag rights in social circles. They have cars they don't need, they buy expensive cameras and lenses they are likely to never use or even know how to. They buy clothes which they are going to not like a month later. They change gadgets every year. They seem to spend money on everything which they don't need, or use or even remotely derive any value from.
Its simply a never ending cycle of upgrades and added finances time after time, which isn't unsustainable.
Even some very intelligent people I know are very poor in understanding large timescales, how investments work, how their own spending can be destructive to them.
At the very same I see people making far less, but a home early in life, start contributing to that retirement fund early and come out on top.
Honestly in the free market economy, freedom seems like something most people are incapable of handling. People have themselves to blame.
"I don’t ask for or expect any sympathy. I am responsible for my quagmire—no one else. I didn’t get gulled into overextending myself by unscrupulous credit merchants. Basically, I screwed up, royally. I lived beyond my means, primarily because my means kept dwindling. I didn’t take the actions I should have taken, like selling my house and downsizing, though selling might not have covered what I owed on my mortgage. And let me be clear that I am not crying over my plight. I have it a lot better than many, probably most, Americans—which is my point. Maybe we all screwed up. Maybe the 47 percent of American adults who would have trouble with a $400 emergency should have done things differently and more rationally. Maybe we all lived more grandly than we should have. But I doubt that brushstroke should be applied so broadly. Many middle-class wage earners are victims of the economy, and, perhaps, of that great, glowing, irresistible American promise that has been drummed into our heads since birth: Just work hard and you can have it all." (emphasis added)
The point is that though the author screwed the pooch on his finances, he assumes that he is a lot better off that most Americans. If true, that should be shocking to us all.
Other commenters point out that those that did save will have to rescue those that have not and that is a BS thing to have to do. I think that is probable, though not certain. However, like this student loan time-bomb, I think that forgiveness is the best path. Yes, we can lord over those that were dumb and did what others told them to do without really thinking. But I would rather have happier and less-stress neighbors and fellow citizens with the forgiveness even knowing that they will do it again and thinking to themselves that they cheated the system and won. We can be 'right' but have to sit in the mud, or we can forgive and all be happier and wiser for the next round.
He should have taught them from an early age about budgets and outlier expenses and the real costs of things (e.g., good school district for them, not much work for his wife). Instead, he's kept them in the dark, to the point of burning retirement savings on a wedding.
No one is born knowing how personal finance works, and learning the hard way sucks. Parents have an obligation to educate their children about this stuff. It's tragic that so frequently, after learning the hard way themselves, they hide everything from their kids, and in doing so, set the kids up for the same set of hard knocks.
Uh, hello? The paragraph consists entirely of "I" statements about the bad choices he made and concludes with a "We".
There's no "we" about it -- I made (make) choices to improve my financial wellbeing. If you don't, that's your problem.
If survey is accurate, that large of a percentage of the population means that society has a problem. That does not just impact the individuals that don't follow good financial practices when they could. So it ends up being your (people that make wise financial decisions) problem to a degree.
Just because it's 47% does not mean that the majority of those 47% are not entirely responsible for their own situation. The things people are mentioning (children's college/university, weddings, houses, cars) are completely dependent on the individual's own decisions. That people actually go into debt or spend their entire life savings on a bloody wedding of all things is certainly not indicative of a problem with society.
Nobody is forced to spend beyond their means to strive to place themselves above middle class. Spending is not justified because you fit the "middle class" demographic and should thus be entitled to "middle class things". There is no endemic here, only individuals making poor choices. There's no huge secret to stashing away some money. It's really not difficult. I can sympathize for someone making less than $50k/year who genuinely struggles with basics. The $50k/year earner who buys a new iPhone every year? Not so much. Someone making $150k/year who is unable to withdraw $2000 from their chequing account? Not a single ounce of sympathy for them. Unless one is in a truly sticky spot like having to pay ungodly amounts of money to manage a severe illness, there is no excuse other than an introspective look at one's priorities.
Society cannot be used as a scapegoat here. The system is not flawed. The way people try to position themselves at a higher level within the system than they can afford? There's the issue.
As written, when he finally gets to his own story, the negative outcomes all seem to be described as inevitable or circumstance. The alternative choices are so simplistic ("I knew how easily my girls could be marginalized in a society where nearly all the rewards go to a small, well-educated elite," "and cutting corners to turn them out faster, I knew, would be cutting off my career") that I think his argument would have been stronger with no explanations at all.
* Children going to a college of their choice
* A catered formal wedding
* Owning a home
* Choosing a career based on interests rather then financial stability
* Having a telecom connection (cable, internet, cell phone)
etc, etc...
* an expensive private college * fancy catered wedding * owning a larger home * doing a white collar flex hours fun career * having lots of telecom options that didn't even exist before.
As someone who went to private school, I can say certainly it doesn't count until you go to university. It may count somewhat in highschool, but primary/grammar school isn't quite the place to make connections that people make it out to be.
I know when I go to work I'm pretty much surrounded by millionaires. I know when I park my car there, it's surrounded by Lotuses and Teslas. What I really want to see is a venn diagram of the two, because I suspect a large portion of the latter are being mortgaged by people who don't have any real exit strategy.
In the UK if you told someone you'd be moving to the Bay Area on a starting salary of $130k you would be looked at like you were minted for life. For most tech graduates that's more than their parents' final salary and that's where you get in at! However there's a disconnect between what seems like a high salary and your spending power in somewhere like San Francisco.
Over here tech salaries are a lot lower, though still good compared to everything except finance. Anyone who lives in London will assuredly not be buying a Tesla on a Google starting salary.
People like saying "Oh he earns a six figure salary", it's a status symbol, and the natural response to earning that sort of cash after going through college and being dirt poor is to splash it a little.
It's a fairly common question on Quora:
https://www.quora.com/I-just-received-a-full-time-job-for-10...
"Natural reaction" is a cop out. People who get hired for being really freaking smart should be smart.
Reminds me of Mark Cuban's Ultimate Stress Test: http://blogmaverick.com/2016/02/08/some-thoughts-on-the-pres...
Not recent at all. I first read about it in The Millionaire Next Door book. Referred to as the "better than" theory [1].
Plain and simple, people don't like to save when they have the option. They like immediate reward. If you make $500 more a month after a raise, many people will reward themselves for the raise, justify buying something they've wanted, etc. After a while, the mindset that they are living just fine while spending the extra money sets in and they end up never saving the extra $500.
[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Millionaire_Next_Door#.22B...