I'm not so sure. I think its very possible that the person in the social network photographs is actually far closer to the person they really are than the photo of them riding alone on the subway.
I'm not so sure. I think its very possible that the person in the social network photographs is actually far closer to the person they really are than the photo of them riding alone on the subway.
(I really like this sort of "subversive art", that has deeply important educational aspects showing people how the world really is in interesting ways...)
Anyway I don't know anybody who busts out their truest expression of self to ride the subway.
I seem to be alone in this, but... they don't even look like the same person to me. Do we have any confirmation that the pairs show the same person? About 10 million Russian men look like the guys in the second pair of photos.
Most of them are clearly the same person.
Sometimes I suspect my early morning public transport "if you don't turn that stupid ringtone down I'm gonna stab you in the face" self is closer to my "truest expression" than my "look at me having fun being the life of this party" social media fake-self...
So I think it cuts both ways.
That's how I see it too, but that may be tempered by my personality. When I'm on public transit or in a crowd, I do my best not to stand out (which is difficult being 6'4" and 240lbs) but when I'm around people I know, I will smile and have fun. When I go to a concert alone, I'm also a bit closed off and tend to dress blandly, but if I go with a friend or a group I'm more lively and interactive, and dressed to suit the music. It's all about being comfortable with those around you, at least for me.
So yes, on the subway I'm the dull guy in the jeans and t-shirt, and on social media I'm almost always with friends in a photo so I'm smiling and having fun.
Nothing out of the ordinary in these photos if you ask me.
Maybe it's that the picture on the web was chosen. Someone put thought into that, they said "oh hey I look good here", it's kinda like an ideal, or at least an above average view of themselves.
It's more surprising when people "overshare" and detail intimate information about themselves IME.
Who looks through photos to choose to preserve and doesn't pick the one's in which they look "better", doubly so when sharing those photos in public?