Apply HN: Krewe- Help people make a group of close friends in their neighborhood
gokrewe.com
gokrewe.com
So it is essentially random, but so is everything. The kids you were friends with in school were just the ones who lived in your school district. Mature adults are mostly able to get along with anyone.
Even if you don't like the people you're placed with at first, you do get to grow your group and meet more people. But some of my best friends are people I didn't really get along with at first. We became close because we spent a lot of time together. I influenced them and they influenced me. We discovered new common interests, and built a culture around it.
I think having a group of friends can be a situation where the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. There are safeguards to remove people who really don't fit in, but I really hope that people will take the time and try to get along with those they're placed with. If it doesn't work, then implementing some sort of interest based system wouldn't be that hard.
A quick search turned up: https://www.smeeters.com/ http://www.sixr.com.au/ https://www.joingrouper.com/
It would be interesting to know how successful those services have been.
Groupers also a one time event, with people from all over town. Krewe is meant to get you to see the same group over and over again.
I do know people who have done Grouper and have loved it. Six seems like a pretty cozy number. You can fit into a booth at a bar, and hold a single group conversation pretty comfortably.
So, a few questions...
1. Where are you right now in bringing this to life?
2. What are you finding difficult about getting this launched, and what are you doing to address those challenges?
3. Describe the person who really fits your target audience - what defines them as a group?
I really think anyone who doesn't have a really great network or feels like their part of a community would benefit greatly from using it. It's not just about meeting a few people, or make a couple friends, it's about building a really powerful community.
However, the people I think would benefit most are the ones who have recently moved to a new city or even a new neighborhood in the same city and don't know many people nearby. Kids coming out of college would be an easy target, but middle and old age people also tend to be the most socially isolated.
I think one of your biggest challenges would be getting enough users to start. Also, it seems like you'd run into problems that face online dating, where if the service is successful, your users will no longer need you. Have you thought at all about how to deal with that problem?
I think there is already a lot there for people to want to keep using it. First, expanding the group is kind of a slow process (so you're given enough time to become close to people). So if you want to have that expansive network, then you'll keep using it. A lot of the time on dating apps, you're looking for one person and then you're done. But you're allowed (expected) to have multiple friends. So it doesn't end with your first group. Second, I think the group messaging system is pretty solid. You're "born" into, so you don't have to go to Facebook messenger and set up a group there. Third, the activity creator is also really solid. It get's rid of all the back and forth involved in getting people to hang out, so it helps alleviate that pain point too.
I have a lot of other ideas for features to add in the future that will keep people engaged, but I won't get into them here.
Krewe places people into a group of six of their peers who all live within a half mile radius of each other. Since it starts with a small group dynamic, it's comfortable to meet up at first. And since everyone lives so close to each other, they can meet up often and become really close. Eventually, they can expand the group and build up a strong local community and a network they can rely on to succeed in their careers, find romantic partners, and enjoy an incredible social life.
How will you get people to use your platform? What's the advantage of this over meetup.com?
I'm hardly able to endure traffic to see my own friends who I already know I like. I think people aren't going to go see people they don't really know yet if they have to trek across the city to do it.
Meetups are ok for meeting people, but they're not great for making good friends. They can be really crowded and intimidating, or you have to awkwardly ask someone out on a friend date, and it's likely that they could live kind of far from you. Krewe starts you out with a small group, so you're singling someone out when you're trying to do something with them.
I would definitely try this in a new city, but maybe not if I've lived somewhere for a while and have an established friend group.