If you're in the UK you can watch that here: http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/b03zndw4/life-and-death...
I'm not quite sure if I'm interpreting your comment correctly, apologies if I've misunderstood the point you're making.
Revenge or resiprocity seems a pretty core part of the human condition.
Besides, they'd be saying the same things for anybody, if they were convinced or led to believe that he/she was the culprit, even if he/she were innocent.
Only if they were against the death penalty should they be heard, because that would be a sign that they speak putting revenge and petty sentiments aside.
The justice system shouldn't be a mechanism for revenge but for the protection of society.
http://kwgn.com/2014/01/08/families-of-murder-victims-rally-...