Look, please correct me if I'm misunderstanding or taking your words out of context.
But what I hear you saying is that CloudFlare is fundamentally opposed to user privacy at a business and an architectural level.
I.e., if you don't agree to let CloudFlare track you around the web (perhaps by simply declining cookies) CloudFlare is likely to degrade your user experience to the point of being borderline unusable and then point the blame at you for coming from a bad network neighborhood.