As far as architecture is concerned, every team is different. At least on the retail side, we tend to center around a large data warehouse that is currently transitioning from oracle to redshift, and with daily log parsing ETL jobs from most services to populate tables in that data warehouse. Downstream of the data warehouse is fair game for pretty much anything.
* SQL Server is proprietary
* SQL Server licenses are expensive
* SQL Server runs only on Windows (or least used to?)
Customer: "How much does an Oracle database license cost?" Oracle Rep: "Well, how much do you have?"
To your own points:
SQL Server is as proprietary as Oracle SQL Server is cheaper than Oracle SQL Server is being ported to Linux in 2017 :)