In Praise of Online Obscurity
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This happens way to much, and it causes an echo-chamber of mediocre ideas to be propagated across the web. This is why I don't always trust the wisdom of crowds. Just because 10,000 retweeted an article, doesn't make it interesting. The same goes if X thousand people bought a book. But they'll get exposure, and more reads/sales.
Another area where the "wisdom of crowds" can perform poorly is in democracy, for example where a majority takes rights away from some other minority.
The main difference now, as I prepare myself and my writing to share things I find uncomfortable to share, is that I'm aware that it's possible that my grandmother will see it.
My strategy in dealing with that isn't to be more cautious. Instead, it's to level with my grandmother. Because of the strange dynamic of the net there are things I'm okay sharing with the anonymous masses that I'd be pretty upset if my grandmother or my kids found out. So I'm going through the process of making sure my grandmother and kids know everything there is to know.
That's scary and difficult. But in the end, I think it's positive.
That's the Tyranny of the Majority. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tyranny_of_the_majority
Stick to niche subjects and you'll get a niche audience. Everybody eats, most people cook to some capacity.
Start a twitter account about "The Archaeological Assessments of Classic Models of Sociopolitical Types in Oceania" and I guarantee it'll feel like a close-knit community for nigh onto infinity.
I'm not sure IRC or webforums in particular are the future---to a certain extent they're canonical 90s and early 2000s past---but I think looking back towards communities and away from everyone-networked-into-one-huge-community-the-size-of-the-internet might be the way to go.