I don't think that's true. I think that the average number of flips before _stopping_ might be 3, but it doesn't become more likely to get HT simply because you're also looking for HH (or vice versa).
But, I still find it strange that if you are flipping with one particular scenario in mind, HT or HH, that the average number of flips goes from 3 to 4 or 6, even if I can reason it out with a bit of thinking.