I'm bootstrapping a Disqus "clone" that I plan to open source and offer hosted versions as a SaaS company.
I'm still building the MVP but I have a demo running here: http://www.remarkbox.com
I've taken special care to not hash user emails when generating avatars.
In addition by default:
* users are anonymous
* Gravatar is disabled
For default avatars I plan to fork https://github.com/Bekt/invatar (to add image caching)