This conflict is resolved when antidepressants are acknowledged as addictive. Long-term use of antidepressants creates a biochemical dependency that is only removed with long, slow tapering.
I've experienced this fact personally. When I first attempted to go off antidepressants, I did so at what I thought was a slow pace, but in fact turned out to be far too fast. My life completely fell apart. I was depressed, anxious, obsessive, worse than I had been in many years. I thought this proved that I really "had depression" (as a discrete illness) and needed the drugs, so I increased my dose back up to more or less the original level. Soon after doing this, my depression/anxiety/OCD went away, and I felt normal again.
But a few years later I tried getting off the drugs again, going much more slowly. And now I'm at the same point I was last time when things fell apart, and I'm doing fine. Overall this withdrawal (from 200mg Zoloft) will probably take me 3 or 4 years. (I'm down to 25mg now.)
I'm convinced that I'm succeeding now where I failed before simply because my previous approach was triggering horrible withdrawal effects, whereas my current slower approach does not.
One secret to successful antidepressant withdrawal: the rate of dose reductions needs to decrease as the overall dose decreases. So when I'm at 200mg maybe I decrease by 20mg in a month. But now that I'm at 25mg maybe I decrease by 2.5mg in a month. The rate of decrease should be proportional to the current dose.
Before I was decreasing in constant increments all the way down (200->150->100->50) but then I started going crazy.
Sorry this is so long. It's a favorite subject of mine ;-)