No One Knows What the F*** They're Doing (or "The 3 Types of Knowledge")
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So I start wondering how many times I do exactly the same thing. I mean, how can I know what I don't know? How much is there? How do I even know if something I really believe is true or not?
It's hard to think that everything I believe about the world might be completely untrue. In illusion. An ... imagination.
Sometimes I am faced with a situation where if I convince the other person of what I believe, then I also believe that person will be better off. For example, if a car is coming and a child is entering a road, Instinctively, we think to call out to the child or try to stop the child or yell at the car to stop the car, but what if the underlying belief: That the child is better off not being hit. Is false?
What if the child may be better off for being hit. Perhaps it makes the child stronger later in life or through her recovery, she meets the man of her dreams and they live happily ever after?
We don't know. I don't know. How can I know what to do?
For example, what is easier - convince you a) that the Martians are attacking or b) that I believe the Martians are attacking?
a) Convince the girl that she is interesting and sexy or b) convince her that you believe that she is interesting and sexy
If you want to get into the conversation (not recommended as it gets ugly quite often when people are completely sure of something * caugh...republicans... caugh*) it's actually better to argue on why they're wrong to be COMPLETELY sure rather than argue the opposite point you might think is right.
They will have far less argument to explain why their point is completely right than to show that yours isn't right either.
The problem is that its the most cock-sure on either side that get into the intractable arguments with each other, or worse, rush into action so sure that they are correct that they never even consider the unintended consequences.
Sadly, it also makes them much more likely to be elected.
Anyone who is capable of getting themselves made President should on no account be allowed to do the job. - Douglas Adams
Frequently, when I qualify the knowledge I'm sharing with comments about my level of certainty in it and/or its sources, I'm criticized for being some combination of "too verbose", "uncertain", "confusing" (even though, when people actually pay attention to me, they usually say afterward that they have a much better understanding than they did before), etc.
The world is complex, sometimes. But there's a lot of pressure to ignore that complexity.
And then people wonder why things go to hell in a hand basket. And EVEN THEN, all too often they don't really want to know. They just want to know who to blame, and what pre-packaged "solution" to implement.
But then half an hour later they ask me the same question the same way and so I just say, 'Yes.' and start answering like that, yes, no, yes, no, yes, yes... and they tend to like that better.
What do I need? Responses so that I can determine my own schedule. What do I get? "Just tell me when you'll be done."
Well, Mr/Ms project manager, what do you really need to be doing? Getting answers from the dependencies who are refusing to answer me. But that's difficult and frustrating and time consuming. So you just lean on me, because I'm on your team and at hand.
More frustrating than schedules are specifications. I'll do some QA work. In order to have some idea of the effort, I need to know the specifications. But those are still in (major) flux (despite being 2/3 of the way through the budgeted schedule). I attempt to explain this. I start describing detail because the person I'm talking to has no idea of the scope of impact this lack of definition creates, or perhaps even that there is still a lack of definition and what that is. But they just want a date, and/or a number of hours.
I'm delving into detail because they haven't done their job. But they don't want to understand the impact of their lapse. They just want "the solution".
Not that I don't make mistakes, myself, and sometimes fail to deliver. But I try not to blow people off because they are finding what they are tackling to be complex.
I guess my comment has ended up being very work focused. Similar things happen in personal life. I started to describe an example, but I think I've written enough.
It is also interesting to consider that you might be wrong about how wrong somebody is. What if you are both right, that you have not considered their issue in a context they perceive?
We perfectionists strive to be right and worry too much about being wrong. How complicated we make our lives.
I hate to bring Godwin into this, but Hitler acted/caused motion, so did Stalin, so do a lot of bad people. Did the world really reward them?
The point is that, right or wrong, they made decisions. They lived. How many of us can say that we took a chance and really felt alive with that big decision? Maybe it is about starting a war with your neighboring country; maybe it is as thrilling as asking your sweetheart to marry you. The act of making the decision breathes life into you. And sure, maybe it is the wrong thing to do, but how do you measure that in good time before making your decision?
The act of making the decision is what separates leaders and followers.
Edit: A better way to put it. "Think, but don't act" can only destroy your life. "Act, but don't think" can destroy everyone's.
Action is like fire-- it's a means to an end, not an end in and of itself.
You also have to factor out things that appear on both sides of the equation. Any of the possible positive things you have prevented that also could happen had you intervened are irrelevant to the decision.
We never have perfect knowledge, but we must act anyway. The alternative is to be frozen and do nothing, ever.
Not so many times. People who fall into your description do know they are BSing, what they don't know is some people actually know they are doing so. I have seen a few of these who actually know their words are total crap, know that everyone doubts them, put keep going with a straight face. They are also the kind that usually get promotions and pay raises.
Reformatted by http://www.slate.com/id/2081042/
The Unknown
As we know,
There are known knowns.
There are things we know we know.
We also know
There are known unknowns.
That is to say
We know there are some things
We do not know.
But there are also unknown unknowns,
The ones we don't know
We don't know.And, he was the guy in charge of regulating the Internet in the Senate.
At any rate, I've added this reference to the article. Thank you very much for this.
You think I'm an ignorant savage
And you've been so many places
I guess it must be so
But still I cannot see
If the savage one is me
How can there be so much that you don't know
You don't know
...
But if you walk the footsteps of a stranger
You'll learn things you never knew you never knew
That seems to pretty precisely describe the two groups: Pocahontas being in the nurse's position, unsure of her own stance, while the English men squarely fit into the egotistical group.Now, what disconcerts me is that, given the same situation, if I say "sure, I can do that" people believe me, but if I say "I don't know how to do it, but I can figure out" others hesitate. I think this has to do with most people wanting you to know a lot, instead of wanting you to know a lot of what you don't know. I'm a firm believer that the latter is far more useful.
If you say you can do it, people believe you. Once you have done a bunch of stuff and people know you can do it, you can tell them you'll figure it out, and they'll believe you.
And they usually get it.
Ex: At 25C and 1atm, oxygen is a gas, not a liquid or solid. No matter how many times you test that, it will always be true; hence, it is a fact.
Of course, if you ask enough questions (How do you know it is 25C? Why are you confident that instrument is accurate? How do you establish the temperature scale in question?) the person claiming it is a fact will eventually get confused (it is was something they didn't realize they didn't know), send you off to ask someone else (if it was something they know they didn't know), or bored (if it was something they know but they are tired of answering your questions) and you will be free to think the fact wasn't really a fact after all.
I'm still not sure how to go about maintaining that perspective. It would be nice if there was a reliable technique one could apply but I suspect it requires frequent 'oh, I just f--ked up' gut checks, like taking down a production website. Maybe the mark of a truly brilliant person is that they're able to maintain that perspective better than others?
Have you ever noticed that when you have the intermittant windshield wipers on in your car, you can change the speed of the wipers to be either faster or slower. When you lower the speed, it re-starts the wiper interval with the swipe at the end of the interval, like this ....|....|....|
But when you quicken the speed, it re-starts the interval with the swipe at the beginning, like this |....|....|....
Some engineer actually realized that when you quicken the speed of the wipers, it's probably because you have an already built-up amount of water on your windshield and need a swipe right away. And when you lower the speed, it's probably because you're getting streaking.
This is pretty ingenious I think. Yet, how often do you appreciate how much thought and effort went into this otherwise unnoticeable feature of your everyday (rainy) life?
That's how I try to keep this perspective.
edit It is now referenced in the article.
And yes, as the rest of the article states, the third category is incredibly (even inconceivably large). In case I actually need to say it, those pie charts are for illustrative purposes only, i.e. not drawn to scale.
Those that know and know that they know are wise, follow them. Those that know and know not that they know are asleep, wake them. Those that know not and know that they know not are students , teach them. Those that know not and know not that they know not are fools, shun them.
As the article notes, we're all a little of each, rather than one of the above, but for me, it captures it nicely.
I also think of it as a doorway. Some doors are open to you; some are closed. And some doorways you haven't noticed are there. It's fun to notice a doorway - behind a wardrobe; plastered over - for the first time when you return to a place you've visited many times.
But, for me, it's also humbling each time I realize there's more to it. It feels unpleasant at first (I guess that's my ego imagining I know everything), but then it's freeing and reassuring. Nature's imagination is greater than my imagination.
edit Unfortunately, I feel as though I know all the principles, and it's just uninteresting details - data, information - that I lack. I hope this is wrong, but I can't imagine how...
Though I think questions aren't there to give you answers, they only throw up more questions.. but I reckon they give you directions. When those questionable directions start to converge you know you are onto something you don't know. When those questions converge like an asymptote..ad infinitum, that's what we call answers.
Doubt scares people, they just want to know where the line ends. But in the real world the only way find such an direction is trial and error.. i think.
Edit: Or who knows, maybe I don't know that we don't know when enough research is enough.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Classical-Definition-of-Kn...
Developing awareness to the unknown in your daily life requires practice, the book with its anecdotes helps in that.
http://mindview.net/WebLog/log-0023
and more on that: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning%E2%80%93Kruger_effect
the report itself (PDF): http://www.apa.org/journals/features/psp7761121.pdf