> An insult?
You seem to be inferring that some people are superior than other people because of their religion.
As you do not spell it out directly, then I consider that it is bordering an insult and not a direct insult. I hope this answers to your question.
> Is something in your sense of self or your psyche built around the
> proposition that sexual self-control is substantially impossible
> anywhere in the human population, such that any assertion
> contradicting it is insulting?
I am actually not arguing about (see above) that certain individuals can not apply limited control over their bodies.
What I am arguing is that it is common (and natural (1)) among humans to form sexual relationships and it would be also natural to discuss scientific issues (think about things floating around in microgravity for an example or conflict psychology, or the list would go on) and policies related to this aspect of human behaviour.
While you seem to suggest that we do not discuss about the issue and should expect celibacy from every involved individual without any further discussion.
This is not a scientific approach.
(1) if you think that it is not common and not natural, then try to explain to yourself why there are religious rules (policies) about it.
> In fact, I'd say that if you are unable to entertain an opinion
> contrary to your own, that's the literal definition of bigotry,
> whether the opinion is valid or otherwise, and it is difficult or
> impossible to conduct rational discourse amidst such closed-mindedness.
I hope that the above also answered to this question.