1. The truth is, I make far fewer queries than the average web user. Because I have the IP addresses I need stored permanently. And I only update those files periodically. Today's websites and graphical web browsers (that I do not use) perform astounding quantities of uneccessary _daily_ or _hourly_ DNS requests that I never make. Maybe you think I am resolving every registered name in existence? If that were true, then yes, I think that is unreasonable
. But the fact is I am only resolving the names I need, which, in the context of the total number of names registered, is very, very few.
however scans.io and other scanning projects do not seem to be labeled as "unfriendly" nor the target of "hate"; perhaps your views are not based on actual exerience?
2. This is a personal solution. I am not writing software for anyone else. I do not have to use TCP for DNS queries and I have never found an authoritative server that refused to accept a UDP query. dnsq does not do TCP queries; I guess you could complain to the author he's violating some rule? If I am not mistaken, amplification problems happen because of ideas like open resolvers and enormous UDP packets, like those required for EDNS0 and DNSSEC. I am not a user of either of those ideas.