The Foursquare of sex
ijustmadelove.com
ijustmadelove.com
My guess is that most (read 99%) of the markers are fake. The map was most likely populated by the website owner.
I was watching the Colbert report and he was making fun of Blippy, which is like the Twitter for your receipts. To highlight how we seem to be moving to broadcasting every ridiculously mundane aspect of our lives, he highlighted what I submitted above.
Is it indicative of a larger trend of over-sharing? Don't know, and hard to say. But it is interesting that someone would try to build it to see if people would use it, and it is an interesting example of an app that takes over-sharing to the extreme.
And it is also interesting to ask the question, what if you take over-sharing to the extreme? Beyond the cultural taboos, can all this perceived uselessness be useful from a different angle?
If it was just a webapp, I don't know that I'd submit it. However, as an iPhone app, which it does, I can see how one might want to both record your sexual behaviors to see if you need to change it up, and if it was shared anonymously, you'd get to compare sexual behaviors with your city or state. It wasn't until Masters and Johnson did their study that a lot of the myths about American sexual behavior was dispelled.
This has the same potential, perhaps. Into S&M, but not finding lots of people that are? Maybe you need to move somewhere else. If you don't like LA, where else in the country would you go?
As a long time HN user, I don't like seeing crap on the front page either, and if you check my submit history, the last two things of mine that made the front page are about git and arc in js.
My perspective:
I was a military wife and homeschooling mom for many years. I am also medically handicapped, which used to limit me a lot more than it does now. So I spent a lot of time on the Internet, to have a social outlet, to get information to help me homeschool, to attend college online, etc. Then I got divorced and got a job -- my lifelong dream: To be Normal. Woohoo!! And I am shocked and appalled at the shallow relationships that pass for Deep And Meaningful at work and in other "normal" social settings. I am used to being able to have serious, in-depth conversations, whether with my grown sons or in some online forum. Most of what I discuss with people at work and other IRL settings is trivial and there isn't time or opportunity to get into anything more than that.
So it seems to me that people probably post stuff like this online because you can. It's not like you are likely to have a bulletin board up at work with this kind of info. It gives people a better idea of who they are and where they stand. Are they "normal"? Does their life look pretty good compared to that of other people? etc.
I think people crave intimacy and information, both of which seem largely taboo in most social settings. So it ends up on the Internet.
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looking forward to when pg lets us starting tagging things as meta
Don't think so.
However, linking to the front page of a site just because it is on the Internet probably wouldn't pass muster with me.
Poll: how many of you added markers? I did!
"So what do you like?"
"I like eating and sex."
"Really? Me too!"
Apps like this seem to fit the idiocracy mold; striving to find the lowest common denominator of interest. What's next? Tracking our bowel movements? Places we've had diarrhea? Places we saw pretty girls?
In short, looks like a great idea. I'm happy to not be using it.
That's what Twitter is for.
Or at least, that's what Twitter gets used for. Most people have entirely unremarkable lives (nothing wrong with that). You get a Twitter account, and you say ... what? "I just went to Starbuck's again. LOL!"
(and I would like to deeplink to a specific area please :) )
Also, judging by the "Use of condoms by country" graph on the Love Stats page (http://ijustmadelove.com/map/statistics/), users in certain ahem countries could do with some condom ads or sex/health info delivered to their phones!