I don't think that's an accurate description of reality. My take is that everybody wants to institute measures that benefit them and hinder others... but the "winners" (i.e. the rich) have comparatively more political power and thus also more success forcing these measures through.
Maybe I'm not living in the real world, but I sincerely doubt that most people would like to hinder others.
* in The Problem of Social Cost, an unusually readable essay for the field of economics.
I've been in competitive workplaces where people would try to get your project shot down because it could compete for resources with their own.
How convenient for you! What would your response be towards a verifiable counter-example?
My only rhetoricism in the comment was that "everybody" was probably an exaggeration; more accurate would be "most people".
Obvious examples would be people like aid workers, religious clergy and others who ostensibly hew to some unselfish non-discriminatory ethical code, but as well know such activities often sacrifice material wealth in exchange for significant social currency, plus there's a disappointingly high proportion of predatory types to be found among those ostensibly caring for the most vulnerable. I don't have the paper to hand now and can't remember enough to look it up but I was surprised last year to discover that people with sadistic tendencies (as measured by clinical instruments) are over-represented in the paramedic profession, for example.
One group that I am inclined to think is extraordinarily concerned with maintaining a level playing field even at their own personal expense is the community of economic theorists, although this claim might seem pretty counter-intuitive at first glance. It also gives rise to a weakness at the heart of the profession; economists are so concerned with discovering objective criteria for efficient outcomes that they don't have a don't have a good model for greedy or altruistic behavior, and until fairly recently have relied instead on the conceit of everyone being rational utility maximizers, much as you did in your grandparent comment. This implicit assumption has led to the discipline being long labeled as 'the dismal science,' notwithstanding the majority of its practitioners' positive rather than normative aims.
Re: clergy - what is this, I can't even... I guess this simply wasn't the best example, but I can't even begin to consider members/representatives of one of the most corrupt, deceitful, greediest institutions in the past 2000 years - the longest-running scam - to be anywhere near selfless.
Re: economists - I'm afraid my opinion of them weights heavily towards them being completely delusional; economics is such a vague "science" and everything is completely unprovable, so having a theory (which isn't correct - no theory is) is infinitely more valuable than being intellectually honest and admitting that you basically know nothing. This is apparent both in theorists (academia encourages this), as with practitioners (LTCM: win Nobel => crash the market; or the past few presidents of US FED - each "fixing" the market only to make it crash even harder). Sure, they might be well-meaning, but so were middle-age "doctors" who made leeches suck their patients blood...