I think "having to ask" is the #1 pain point.
Money is usually not a topic people are comfortable talking about.
Money is usually not a topic people are comfortable talking about.
Also when you're taking a broader market into consideration, be sure to consider quality of life. Yes I may get more money somewhere, but it might be a miserable product/team/culture which reduces the value of that position. Or I might have a shorter commute, fewer hours or more vacation, which would add to the value of the other position.