Maybe you would be happier if you chose to use the site differently?
It seems to me that a lot of the complaints about the voting system revolve around how it impacts what gets on "the front page" and what stays there. I have been a member here for a few months and only very recently figured out how to intentionally pull up "the front page" (I'm quick like that). I typically click on the "new" option and refresh that several times during my visit. Then I read what gets my interest. I'm not much of a crowd-follower and never have been. It really doesn't mean much to me if something is "popular". So what? Lots of things that are popular are pure dreck -- which is apparently the basis for why the voting system is being tweaked to begin with.
Off the top of my head, I don't know of a comparable site with comparable size which has tackled a similar problem. It seems to me HN is a victim of its own success in that these problems apparently arise out of how much traffic/membership has grown. Either the people that run it will learn and grow and adapt or it will hit a fail wall and seriously degrade. I've left some sites which hit that wall and which I felt were no longer worth participating in. In the cases I know of, a huge limiting factor was the head honcho. My hope is that the experiments being done here will yield good results, resolve the problem(s) that inspired them and HN can go on to new, grander levels of success.
Oft quoted remark in some forum I used to go to: "Growth for the sake of growth is the ideology of the cancer cell." My hope is that HN continues to have goals other than just "growth". Presumably, these irritating experiments are being done in the name of keeping some of the qualities which got HN here to begin with and are a search for a means to keep the baby but dump the bath water.
Here is to hoping it all works out.