Pitfalls of self-guided science (2004)
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I had a friend with similar proclivities and eccentricities who was fortunate enough to have a father that worked at Oak Ridge National Laboratory. His studies were directed and safe, he was able to visit the lab on a regular basis, and he ended up going to MIT and becoming a nuclear engineer. It's entirely an issue of access, and a lot of times you literally have to be born into it, which seems like an inefficient system.
Not to say university is the only way to study science, but its the "official" way.