Your cell membranes are made of these little molecules, however they are not bound together. So how does the membrane stay together? The molecules have 2 ends, one hydrophobic and the other hydrophilic. The membrane is made of 2 layers of the molecules (like a sandwich), with the hydrophilic ends of the molecules (the bread) on the outside of the membrance and the hydrophobic ends touching inside. This happens because the two sides of the membrane (the outside and inside the cells) are water, which the hydrophobic ends hate (because they are fat/oil).
The question becomes, does this layering occur naturally? Or do the molecules have to be coerced into this arrangement. Of course the answer is, yes, it happens naturally. This video is simply a physical simulation and visualization.