Regardless, my understanding is that we're entering a dry period for capital in the tech business right now and investors are pulling back from tech startups in a big way.
If this is true, VCs are going to raise the bar quite high. A few years ago just the fact that you are in 2 different countries would be an automatic disqualification for many investors. And they can clearly see that not only are you collaborating remotely but you sourced someone and more or less put them in the driver's seat as your bizdev proxy.
I suppose the outlook was a lot more rosy back in Nov but it's frankly surprising that they even let you in the door in the first place. The investor gave you a very clear rational reason for backing out.
Your CEO's passion for your business isn't something you can force either. They see the risk as well. Unless your product is just mind blowing, which maybe it is given the interest, you're not going to raise money easily with this configuration.
You have a high bar in a difficult time, and a limp partner is the last thing you need. So yes you need to address this head on. Hopefully you can regroup, bootstrap a little longer and try again when you're on firmer ground