I'd also like to say that I am absolutely against raising of noise levels because that sucks for coding and also life in general. I'm deaf, but not completely deaf, and I also have a condition called "recruitment" which is a form of noise sensitivity that you can read about here: http://www.hyperacusis.net/hyperacusis/hyperacusis+or+recrui... Recruitment makes noisy office environments an absolute nightmare for me and I've been known to take my damn laptop and go the hell home and work there if the noise levels ramp up.
Sociability in programmers takes many forms, and I don't think it's a coincidence that sites like HN and stackoverflow are so popular with devs - that's a way of very sociable without actually having to speak to people in meatspace. Programming has probably more of its fair share of introverts and non-neurotypical peeps, partly because of the requirement for peace and quiet while you're working out hard problems. I think it's also partly because as a group we're more accepting of others' needs and differences. Mack Collier did a great post on this, and it's this sort of concept I was thinking about when I wrote that part of the article: http://mackcollier.com/why-introverts-love-social-media/
So once again, sorry for making you feel shitty. In future I'll be on guard against coming out with things like that. Keep being awesome!