To The Lone Entrepreneur: Make Your Failure Public
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If you've told your friends and family what you're working on, if your project should die you will have people asking you "Hey, whatever happened to...", which will motivate you to not die. For similar reasons, I recommend having a blog, as if you didn't have enough reasons to have a business blog already.
You don't even have to do a launch party -- I just told my dad. He told me my idea was, ahem, crazy and that I should go get a job at Google. (Best bad advice ever in terms of motivating me.)
My step-dad is 90 and has done a lot of cool stuff. I admire the heck out of him. He's still sharp and has great advice about everything else.
But I've found with startups and technology consulting? I'm better off doing the exact opposite of whatever he says. It's like the world he grew up in had exactly the opposite paradigms from the world he is in now.
So with friendships and sharing comes a lot of unspoken assumptions. Be sure the people you share with or have the party with have some idea of how technology businesses work (or are willing to listen to you). Otherwise you could either get bad "quit now and do something productive" advice , or worse yet, blanket acceptance without an honest critique. After all, partners are also there to tell you that you're going off the rails.
I'm about 2 months in now, and while I'll need another 2 or 3 before I'm ready to promote it, just having it out there has been an excellent motivator, for one simple reason:
When I talk about the site to someone new, rather than just explain the idea of the thing I'm working on I have to also tell them that it's up on the web. And when I do that, given its current state I have to follow with a whole litany of cautionary notes to the effect of: it's not done yet.
So instead of basking in the glow of the nobility of my not-yet-public project, for now and until it's ready to go, I'm be making well-justified apologies every time it comes up.
I'm looking forward to not needing to make those apologies, and working in part to see that happen. These uncomfortable moments complement my longer-term vision for the project, as the immediate, recurring motivation I need to complement the that farther-out achievement of completion.
So I agree, as the submitter says: Make your "Failure" Public.
edit: And in the spirit of what's above, you should know that the site's visual design has been the same since the first weekend, and will be totally revamped sometime in the near future.
Although I know the title is denigrating, it actually is good advice. My first effort failed miserably, causing me to slink back to a nine-to-fiver I hate. Once I came to terms with why I had failed the first time and shared those deeply personal things with others, I find my second time around is much clearer and focused. And those who are informed and care help to remind me of what not to do as much as what to do. In some ways, they are like silent co-founders.