You see, there is where you mistake. Debian official packaging is about Quality of package. Lintian checks for example is your library really a library or it maybe contains scripts, did you make a mistake in description (simple letter mistake), did you miss new copyright files (or change in copyright of the same). There is also a reason why it suggests building in clean chroots, installation in same clean environment. You also have piuparts to check it's transition. Debian packaging is a
huge
thing and it would take me quite a time to explain it and I would still miss something. Also our packaging assumes that not all upstreams make sane coding or installation scripts so we detect them before just pushing them into system.
As you said, Arch could have all that but it doesn't and there are the reason why people who use Debian don't use Arch. Again, you can quickly make deb packages without following any of our docs and no, package manager should not solve what differs from our official build quality and Debian Policy (it would be too much hassle to predict and implement in how many ways people can break their system).
I am glad that Arch exists, so everyone has a freedom to choose it if they want :)