Or spending unnecessary time with my parents.
Or moving back to the city I was born in order to pursue that, instead of living in a city where I can make the biggest difference.
My post simply posits the question of re-examining what we've been indoctrinated with. Look at any ancient advanced civilization and you'll see that during their ascension they were not operating with "social life" high up in their list of priorities in life. It was only when same civilizations came crashing down that "relationships" and social-obsession increased a lot in perceived importance.