I also think it doesn't really matter how much your valuation is, because the options are effectively worthless until there is a qualifying event. If you're already public, then you might have a case for it, but for most startups, it's as good as monopoly money.
Salary + benefits + culture is what gets me in the door every day. Equity is just a bonus.
I once interviewed with a YC company and got an offer that was significantly under my current salary. When I tried to negotiate, the founder insulted me and basically told me I was an idiot for ignoring the equity component which was "worth far more than the salary." Pretty glad I didn't take that position, but it still bothers me how misguided he was about the whole situation.
I can't pay rent with equity. My landlord won't accept "I have stock options in some startup you've never heard of" as payment.
There are a lot of posts about equity around here, and I just think it's overrated in general. Kinda wish we'd talk more about salary and other benefits and a little less about what basically amounts to a crapshoot. For instance, my hearing aids are very often not covered by health insurance... now that would be a nice perk for someone like me.