My Jersey house must be one of the lucky ones, because I've had FIOS there since about 2009. I can see why the towns are upset, they were promised fiber and now Verizon is bullshitting them with broadband cellular.
As for my PA house. I had asked a tech a few years ago when FIOS would be available here, and his response was "never". I didn't take him at his word, but I'm still getting weekly mailings from Verizon for their 'high speed DSL'.
Does the College itself get a government/academic feed or do academic institutions have to rely on local commercial providers?
UK has janet and UKERNA.
https://www.jisc.ac.uk/network
To overcome the limitations of our domestic ADSL (6 km from exchange over solid aluminium wire voice circuit) I sometimes run queries over an RDP session to my College PC.
Fun hearsay, it was said that for a period in 98/99, West Halls dorm was one of the largest usage of broadband in the country.
Edit: I see you were responding to the immediate parent, not me. Oops.
I also had to swallow my pride and go over to Comcast.
When Frontier asked me why I was cancelling my account, I said: "because you haven't upgraded my DSL speed since 1997, and now you've told me you never will." That operator didn't even bother trying to get me to stay after I gave that reason.
Interestingly, one of the early techs put a TDR on the line and found I needed a new drop cable (the cable from the pole to the house). He put the order in. A few hours later a line guy shows up and says "yeah, we're not going to do that." Basically, he said it would cost them $2,000 to put in a new drop cable and he didn't have the authority for that. The next tech that came out basically told me between a wink and a nod that I should have a "tree trimming accident" where the drop cable was "accidentally" severed. I was too chicken to do it. I switched to Comcast and got 10x the speed, for about 2x the price.
The internet providers are just as bad as the railroads. The have too much power to control which towns and cities thrive in the modern world.
In a way you've got to hand it to them. Everyone hates them, and yet they remain one of the most viable players, nationwide.