I'm sure many drugs / stimulants make you feel better in short term but what about the long term?
Finland has the highest coffee consumption per capita in the world with ~12kg annually; compare to the US with ~4.1kg: http://www.worldmapper.org/posters/worldmapper_1038_coffee_c...
I have noticed that if I don't get caffeine, I have a headache within a day. It lasts for about 3 days, or up to week. Then the cold turkey is over. I switched to green tea for 1.5 years when living in Asia (quite bad coffee, sorry) and then started again with coffee.
Decaffeinated is not popular here (e.g. our office does not have it) but Finnish coffee is no espresso so it's not that strong in caffeine. I prefer espresso beans though, not the light roast that is typical here.
I've seen a couple of studies on the effects of coffee/caffeine on alertness. They showed that initial usage produced heightened alertness, but the body adapts relatively quickly, resulting in lower baseline alertness and a need to use caffeine to reach an alertness level roughly matching (or often not quite matching) the original pre-caffeine baseline.
So: you start drinking coffee, you get short-term alertness, long-term you have to keep drinking it to get back to the alertness you started with before you started drinking coffee.
So your worries are well founded as drinking so much has given me the powers to turn Coffee into Water