Real banks will ask you for Driver Licenses and SSN when you open a bank account with them.

Information on DL has your height, eye color, address, telephone number, your photo, your finger prints. That's why they don't need to ask for your income again.

However, I tried Coinbase and will not use them ever again.

I and many other fellow countrymen have had that experience with Itaú (largest bank in the southern hemisphere). Paypal seems to be a popular source of complaints regarding frozen accounts too.

Same here. I've been through the KYC loops and I know how invasive they have to be occasionally. Coinbase took it to another level.