I'm a doctor, and very into free speech, but the problem here is that in healthcare, patients' choices are paid with other people money.
Has it ever occurred to you don't have much control over that risk, and that you are a human being that like every other can become sick for no reason at all?
> and have family to help me out
Has it ever occurred to you that many people in the United States do not have family to help them out?
Has it ever occurred to you that many people in the United State don't have legs?
However, it damn well could be that I could get a disease or condition that no one can prevent. No one has any business pretending otherwise.