There isn't much that is subjective about paying the appropriate amount for the services and programs you benefit from.Again, you used a subjective term "Appropriate".
You are attempting to present subjective opinions as objective facts. They are not.
If you disagree that you should pay $5 for a cup of coffee that costs $5, then we have some very fundamental differences and can't come to any agreements in this debate.
If I feel that $5 is too much for a cup of coffee, I am free to not buy it. To adopt the statist's mentality and apply it to commerce, one could argue that since people need jobs and Starbucks pays their employees well, it is a societal good for Starbucks locations to be profitable and therefore, everyone should have to pay for Starbucks coffee, whether they drink it or not.
I reject this notion.
On the contrary. Murder is illegal because we have decided as a society that killing people without just cause is immoral.
The state regulates homicide, not for moral reasons but for reasons of social stability. No prohibition on homicide would lead to mass scale killings and retaliations.
A fire department benefits you even if your house isn't on fire, because they put out fires in neighboring buildings and prevent them from spreading to and burning down yours.
Where I live, fire departments are volunteer organizations that are funded by donations. I donate to them because I believe that the service they provide is worth my money.
You are part of a society, and taxes are required to maintain the proper operation of that society, whether you have asked for it or not.
My obligation to supply those funds is determined by the law and I'm only obliged to pay the minimum required by law.
I pay my taxes, not because I have a moral obligation to do so. I pay my taxes because I have a legal obligation to do so. In other words, if I don't the state will send men with guns to take me away.
All of the homeless shelters, fire departments and police officers in the world are worth less to me than my freedom.