>I did not want to work professionally with people who were allowed to get away with subtle sexist or homophobic jokes.
So... another Adria Richards? Careful not to make any jokes about forking dongles!
I don't want to work professionally with people who have a stick jammed up their ass - and it seems to me that most people agree. I'm trans. I find this comic [0] hilarious. Others would call it problematic, offensive, and even transphobic. I wouldn't want to work with any of those people.
Asking people to bend over so you can shove a stick up their ass doesn't go well. I can see how this might come as a surprise to people who already have sticks, but I guess somebody needs to tell them... the stick isn't normal. The problem isn't that other people are missing their sticks, but that you have one.