Two-thirds of the world's population under 50 have herpes
reuters.com
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Herpes_simplex#Society_and_cul...
Herpes simplex was not always stigmatised. It was merely a cold sore in an unusual place until the 1970s. As late as 1975, a study of "Psychological morbidity in a clinic for sexually transmitted disease" does not mention herpes simplex because at that time, no significant morbidity problem (i.e. mental anxiety or illness) was associated with the virus.[98]
Pedro Cuatrecasas states, "during the R&D of acyclovir (Zovirax), marketing [department of Burroughs Wellcome] insisted that there were 'no markets' for this compound. Most had hardly heard of genital herpes..." Thus, marketing the medical condition – separating the 'normal cold sore' from the 'stigmatized genital infection' was to become the key to marketing the drug, a process now known as 'disease mongering'.[99][100]
Since the creation of the herpes hype, some people experience negative feelings related to the condition following diagnosis, in particular if they have acquired the genital form of the disease. Feelings can include depression, fear of rejection, feelings of isolation, fear of being found out, and self-destructive feelings.[101] These feelings usually lessen over time. Much of the hysteria and stigma surrounding herpes stems from a media campaign beginning in the late 1970s and peaking in the early 1980s. Multiple articles were worded in fear-mongering and anxiety-provoking terminology, such as the now-ubiquitous "attacks", "outbreaks", "victims", and "sufferers". At one point, the term "herpetic" even entered the popular lexicon. The articles were published by Reader's Digest, U.S. News, and Time magazine, among others. A made-for-TV movie was named Intimate Agony. The peak was when Time magazine had 'Herpes: The New Scarlet Letter' on the cover in August 1982, forever stigmatizing the word in the public mind.[81] Herpes support groups have been formed in the United States and the UK, providing information about herpes and running message forums and dating websites for sufferers. People with the herpes virus are often hesitant to divulge to other people, including friends and family, that they are infected. This is especially true of new or potential sexual partners whom they consider casual.[102]
Can anyone explain this: "That is because improved hygiene in rich countries is lowering HSV-1 infection rates in childhood, leaving young people more at risk of catching it via oral sex when they become sexually active."
Welcome to the wonderful world of spin doctoring.
"In developing countries, kids will get herpes from playing in the mud or other things. In the developed world, we incubate kids in sterile bedrooms, so their first exposure to this pathogen is during sexual activity."
This seems very elitist to me - having grown up in a first world country, where I played in the mud and hit things with sticks.
That kind of thing probably happens less in developed countries due to higher awareness. [citation needed]
IANAI (Immunologist)
[ed: to add, I'm not entirely sure on how/if hsv-1 (the same strain of hsv-1) can "move" -- I recall sex. ed. stating that the most common cause of HSV-1 in the genitals and eyes were self-induced -- but that might have been the other way around (HSV-2 moving from the genitals to the eyes)]
http://www.healthcentral.com/genital-herpes/c/86/6903/hsv1-o...
As for HSV-2:
-More than 80% of people with herpes are undiagnosed
-Overall prevalence by the time people reach their forties is 26%.
-In the general population, one-fifth of women and 11.5% of men are infected.
http://commonhealth.wbur.org/2011/04/latest-genital-herpesAddition: while oral sex often goes unprotected (HSV-1), HSV-2 transmits also with condoms during sexual penetration. Skin-on-skin contact in unprotected areas is enough for the virus to transmit. However, because of the motion and friction condoms protect women better than men.[1]
And don't lick someone's genitals if you have it in your mouth.
And before you let someone lick your genitals, ask them if they have it.
Second, you're being downvoted because oral outbreaks can be very mild and may just look like acne, or a razor burn, or any number of other normal dermatological conditions. "Just looking for it" is perhaps the worst way to possibly think about any STD.
In response to another question in this thread, the safest way to "diagnose" herpes in others, is probably to ask them. If they don't know (haven't been tested lately), assume they're infected. And if you can't trust them to tell the truth, you probably have no business being (physically) intimate with them... (Not meant as a moral judgement, just as an observation).
Herpes outbreaks are not necessarily apparent visually, which is true for both hsv-1 AND hsv-2 ("genital herpes").
The only way to really know if you are infected is to get tested during an outbreak, which is not always easy to do as outbreaks do not always correspond to visual cues. So you either need to trust the person you're intimating with or you need to take precautions, which also don't always prevent infection. Condoms reduce the transmission rate, for example, but don't preclude transmission to areas of the body not covered by the condom.
The hardest part of any STI for someone with access to health care is the fear and the disclosure, but here's one of the best written articles on the subject to say why disclosure isn't so bad: http://thehairpin.com/2012/04/the-perks-of-herpes/
http://www.who.int/mediacentre/news/releases/2015/herpes/en/
Is there any proper cure?
I dnt want that me or our future baby gets it.
So I don't have herpes (EDIT: SIMPLEX, what nearly everyone has), and I realize it's not a big deal whether I do or don't. I do know I'm in a minority of adults who are in situations to regularly hook up with strangers, people who don't happen to have Herpes, and it's probably due to the fact that I don't actually do so; I'm very picky and basically don't hook up with strangers, just people I happen to know already or be introduced to, OR hitting it off in very rare cases, by really sharing something personal. In the past this included colleagues! (not very serious work.) What I mean is that if I hooked up wtih strangers even a few times - let's say 10 times in 4 years - then I'd probably have it by now.
My reasoning is that given like 80% infection rate, pretty much if I'm going to hook up with people who experience even the tiniest element of network effect, then I'd expect to get it fairly soon.
so far my strategy is just to hold out until I meet the right person, who is similar to myself and has had just a few sexual partners and longer relationships. I was married previously, for example, for several years. (I'm in my very early 30s.)
But I do feel like I might be missing out.
What do you guys suggest I do for more casual dating, other than starting from the pool of people I happen to know or coincidentally run into, or meet at parties or clubs but really, really share something with; rather than the pool of strangers ready to hook up? Given that nearly everyone has it, I'm just not ready for it.
By the way I'll go ahead and get it from someone if they're interesting enough to be in a long-term relationship with; big deal, luck of the draw.
But if I don't have such a specific person in mind, I'd rather apply that filter first . . . (or my version). maybe there should be a dating site for people who happen not to have it! we're certainly a minority.
Also, I didn't realize that was what was causing the downvotes. What I mean is that it's easy for me to hook up with strangers, and if someone is attractive and interesting I'd assume it's easy for them to hook up with strangers as well; so the only question is whether they want to. (or I want to.)
The reason I mentioned that is that I thought the main vector was open-mouthed kissing.
Take it from me, I have chronic cold sores and while they suck there really isn't much use in worry about it. Most people don't get chronic cold sores, I am in the slim minority.
Who the hell has been stroking your ego? Seriously!!! You assume that people only get herpes from fucking other people who have the virus unbeknownst to them!
> it's probably due to the fact that I'm very picky and basically don't hook up with strangers, just people I happen to know already or be introduced to
Anywho, the main error in your post really has to do with the fact that you'll catch this kind of thing from water fountains, silverware, accidentally sipping from the wrong glass, touching a paper cup against a fountain soda dispenser, after someone else did the same, and then drinking from said cup, sitting on toilet seats. Et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.
Now, instead of being locked in a prison of ignorance, you'll be locked in a prison of germophobia. Ah well...
I think "locked in a prison of ignorance" is quite strong phrasing. Unless I'm wrong about how it's transmitted, if I regularly kissed total strangers I'd have it by now.
are you saying I just shouldn't mind at all? (Like, I shouldn't even consider it?)
People who spread it won't readily display symptoms while contagious. People have it and don't realize it. Doctors don't even test you for it, unless you specifically ask, since it's not life threatening, and most people who would test positive may have had it since infancy.
Simplex I is the more common infection, that even your grandma probably has by now. Simplex II is the skeevy version that your cousin picked up in middle school. Technically speaking, it has to do with the tendency for each species to proliferate in different mucous membranes. The differentiation probably has something to do with the way the human body operates the immune system at different levels in different parts of the body, and over millions of years, each species has adapted to colonize one orifice more readily than another.
Furthermore, HSV I can show up on the mouth or anywhere else. HSV II can ALSO show up on the mouth or anywhere else. You can have both on the mouth simultaneously or both on your junk simultaneously, or one on your junk and the other on your mouth. Each species of virus has a tendency to reside in one area and transmits from that area more readily than the opposing area, but it's really just a liklihood, not hard rules that one only happens here and the other there. That tendency to colonize the mouth is what makes HSV I so common and transmissible because our mouths are exposed to more environments and come into contact with various situations and aren't covered behind clothing nearly as often as elsewhere.
I spent a long time freaked out about this... then I realized that it's basically an inevitability. We'll all be dead in 80 years anyways :)
You're not that interesting though, judging from your post.