generally people don't seem to enjoy conversation with me
Based on what evidence? Have people told you this or is it your perception that they don't enjoy conversation with you?
If multiple people have told you that they don't enjoy conversation with you then... GREAT! You have data! Go ask them what it is they don't like. If you can agree that they have valid concerns then you can work on fixing those things. If you don't agree then that's ok too. You're being yourself.