That point has to be hammered on, rather than neglected, because in reality it is completely true that no such box exists, and almost certainly no such box could exist, and it's very important when explaining this to people that it's a thought experiment, a metaphor, not something that actually happens in the macroscopic world.
Please everyone, stop using the word 'observe' to describe what happens when the box is opened. It has been used by physicists to mean the same as 'measure' which really means something like 'touch'. The problem is that for all but a tiny fraction of the world's population 'observe' simply means 'see' and is something that can be done without 'touching' and without being seen oneself.
In the real world it most emphatically is not equivalent. And also in the real world, a lot of people get very confused about this.