War is every bit as ugly as it was a century ago.
Disagree, as far as I understand at least Americans and western Europeans don't systematically rape civilians. Firebombing civilian areas isn't as acceptable as it used to be etc etc.
Really cruel things still does happen but it could have been a whole lot worse.
I'm of the opinion that as an unarmed civilian I'd much rather meet an angry, armed soldier than about any other equally angry equally armed person. Then again, my limited training and lack of combat experience might have rendered me a bit naive.
And: IIRC drone operators, at least many of them, aren't soldiers which has been pointed out as a problem even by US military, again IIRC.