Most people do not agree. They have always moved to low density areas any time it becomes feasible. This is a constant throughout just about all of human history, and under just about every form of social organization. The wealthy have always had country estates, even in the days of ancient Rome. The nomenklatura of the Soviet Union had their country dachas, etc.
You are getting the cause and effect backward. The car made it possible for people to spread out while remaining employed, and they took advantage of that capability. It didn't force them to do it.
It's called voting with your feet, dude.
http://www.planetizen.com/node/77680/do-millennials-opt-citi...
Overall there is something of an urbanization trend (especially in emerging economies) but it's not as pronounced as it's often made out to be.
In 5-10 years, they'll be heading out of the cities just like their parents and grandparents did.
“There has been an increase in college-educated young adults living in very dense
urban neighborhoods — smart young things living in Brooklyn, in downtown
San Francisco,” said housing analyst Jed Kolko at U.C. Berkeley’s
Terner Center for Housing Innovation. “But it’s not true of that generation
overall. Only about one third of 25-to-34-year-olds have a college degree.
Today they are actually less likely to be living in urban neighborhoods,
as opposed to suburban areas, than that same age group was in 2000.”
1. http://www.marketplace.org/topics/economy/young-buyers-want-...