I quickly discovered that quarterly VAT returns were a pain, and accountants aren't cheap (for some definition of cheap).
I am also just a one man band at the moment, and de-registered for VAT about a year ago. Unless there are significant savings to be made, or you're over the £82k per annum revenue threshold, factor in the cost of the effort to submit these returns. They really are just a distraction from the main focus of your startup business.