"Would you care to expand this statement?"
It seem proven enough if you have dedicated highly skilled developers. Not necessarily if you're a smaller startup that have to do a lot of other things and are relying on the ecosystem. With one of the more well know stacks you have a long history of not only security fixes, but knowledge about how to do things.
It kind of boils down to if I would implement say a payment system with the stack could I feel confident we wouldn't get compromised? Currently I have a lot higher confidence in e.g. Python + Django + Nginx than Elixir + Phoenix + Cowboy.
That said, I'm still playing around with it.