Nope. And I have real world experience to contradict that.
Last year started a project with elixir, about 8 months before elixir hit 1.0. Despite starting with me and another engineer we both built a team, taught them elixir (the ones who didn't already know) and got a product to production within about 5 months[1].
Erlang is not new. It has been around for over 20 years. I don't think we needed to, but if there weren't an elixir library for what we needed, we had erlang libraries to fall back on. Our "new engineers" were often attracted to us BECAUSe we chose elixir. It took about a week for us to get new engineers productive with elixir (we hired good people, though).
You're over estimating the benefit of libraries and way underestimating the benefit of a really good language/platform.... and elixir/erlang is that.
It's a lot faster to create a given amount of functionality in Elixir, and then a lot faster to debug it and extend it.
And then, after making the choice to stick with an "established" language, companies are shackled to it forever, hiring people who already like that language and so they never leverage newer better ways of doing things.
[1] That was a year and several months ago that it went live. Five months may seem long, but this was a from-scratch ecommerce in a highly regulated industry involving a great deal of pulling customer records during the purchase process, with a parent company that didn't understand the concept of specs and kept changing it's mind on what it wanted. We were about %30 faster than a comparable other project at this company.