No, but nobody cares about M0. It's M2 that creates demand in the marketplace. As soon as a bank fails, all that created M2 disappears from circulation and that's what crashes economies ("too big to fail"). In a full-reserve banking system (M0 = M2) nobody would care about crashing banks.
> Bottomline is, the loan is an asset and the deposit is a liability.
I used to be as skeptical as you about the full-reserve crowd but that point is actually what got me thinking: banks are the only players in the economy for whom giving out loans is a balance-sheet extension (what you're describing). They're worth more, the more loans they give out.
For everybody else, giving out a loan doesn't change their net worth! They're just exchanging one asset (money) against another asset (an IOU from someone). In other words: banks are special and are not allowed to fail, because we let them create money.