don't try to figure everything out man.
I just turned 32 and I had a "young-life crisis" from 29-31 probably where I didn't know what I wanted to do. My best friends seemed to be more successful than me and I felt like if I didn't make something happen quick then my contribution to society would be nil.
Sometimes you gotta just roll with life. If you think your job is dead end, then take a big boy breath, put in your notice and leave. Find another job. Go travel for a few months. Learn a new technology or build something that interests YOU.
Most of all, enjoy life. Stop and smell the roses. Hang out with friends and family and make new memories with them. You got your whole future ahead so just take it one step at a time!