The Limits of Language
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Does he reference any data that would give his suggestion non-negligible plausibility?
I believe the explanation you're looking for is under 3.1.
The phone was the first change. To this day I hate speaking to people on a phone because if I don't see their eyes and body posture I have a very hard time understanding what they mean.
Usually, in a normal, face to face conversation, I have a rough idea of what someone is going to say next, which eases the cognitive burden of the conversation.
But somehow that doesn't really work over the phone, so I have to wait for people to say things, parse what they're saying, run it against various possible interpretations, and then think of an answer. It's exhausting, (not to mention error prone).
Edit -- conversation is like a dance, (or a game of chess). There are rules, within the rules, an infinite number of moves, and a limited number of "usual" moves. You normally just follow the usual moves, and sometimes you invent a new one, or place a usual move in an unusual context.
To me, talking over the phone is like trying to dance over the phone by describing to the other person what you're doing. It's not impossible, just extremely difficult.
Well... it depends.
If both speakers are in front of a pen and one points to the pen she'll say "le stylo est là" -- that part's true.
But if you're in another part of a big house and someone yells "where is the pen", and the pen is with you in this remote room, you can yell back "le stylo est ici", meaning "it's here with me".