Don't be so quick to label
all butter as unhealthy. Butter from pasture-fed dairy cows is a great source of fat-soluble vitamins, particularly vitamin K. The commodity butter you are likely to get from mainstream brands is not. As it is an animal product, what you get out of it depends a lot on what you put into it, and there is good reason why most livestock-based companies do not want to make an issue of their husbandry practices.
There is even some evidence that indicates that not only is pasture-fed butter better than trough-fed butter, but that regularly rotating the herd to a different pasture every N days is even better. But when the press talks about butter, all butter is the same.
And let's not get started on alcohol... I believe that the current story is that somewhat less than one normalized drink per day is now healthy, and that it does not even have to be red wine.
Do your vegetables have too much oxalic acid, biological contaminants, or residual farming chemicals? Is your fish farmed, or wild-caught (using slave labor)? Is this meat processed just a little bit, or so much that it is now unhealthy? Is this "pink slime" stuff okay, or not? Is this tomato bred for flavor and nutrition, or for uniformity, ease of processing, and visual appeal?
So it's not obvious. It is, in some cases, intentionally obfuscated, to protect business interests.
Most people do have a vague idea of what is healthy, and what is not. But they have no clue when it comes to subspecies, sources, processing, transport, preservation, and preparation.
I know that spinach is a supposedly healthy food. But I have no idea whether there is any significant difference between canned spinach, block-frozen spinach, or bagged fresh spinach. I don't know on an instinctual level whether it is better to sautee it in butter or to bake it in a pastry with feta cheese. I'm not sure where it comes from, or if it is a different variety than spinach grown from seed. Sure, the unhealthiest serving of spinach is probably going to be better than the healthiest serving of gummi bears, but I don't typically eat just one thing when I eat. That spinach might come with a sandwich attached to it, or salad dressing, or barbecued pork, or feta and phyllo.
So it's not always spinach versus gummi bears. Sometimes it's gyros with spanakopita versus pulled pork sandwich with side of greens. I literally have no idea which of those two lunches is healthier, or even if the same lunch plate from different restaurants will have a similar healthiness profile.
The only way I could possibly keep track would be to have a digital assistant that is able to automatically evaluate everything I might put in my mouth and give a recommendation for a healthier alternative that isn't so far from whatever it is that I want to eat that I will ignore it. If I want a burrito from Taco Bell, I might need a recommendation for a burrito from Los Cocineros Hermanos, rather than the good karma salad from Hippietown Vegan Lunchery.