> the chances are exactly 50% that the first result is more extreme than the second one
The chance is 50% if you condition only on the information you have before doing either experiment. But once you've done the first experiment, the chance of a more extreme result given what happened the first time may be much more or much less.
(Extreme example: Your experiment consists of rolling ten ordinary 6-sided dice. The null hypothesis is that they're fair dice, fairly rolled, in which case you expect a total not too different from 35 pips. All the dice come up 6. It is not now true that if you run the experiment again, you're as likely to get a more extreme result as you are to get a less extreme one!)
> confidence intervals [...] "x is with a likelihood of 95% between a and b"
But that isn't what a confidence interval means! A 95% confidence interval [a,b] means "If we ran the experiment lots of times, using the same method of computing the interval [a,b] each time, then in 95% of runs (in the long run) the true value would be in the interval [a,b] obtained on that run".
(What you described is what Bayesians call a "credible interval". Of course that interval depends on your prior.)