I'm all for frugal but life isn't a dress rehearsal.
Put very simply: over a 10 year period I could invest in a BMW or flights back to Europe to visit family. I will spare no expense giving our parents time with their grandchildren before it's too late.
I'm more than happy to drive my POS '04 Mazda 6.
When I read 'to live frugally so as to retire at 50' I see a lot of lost experiences that can enrich both now and later.
Find the right job and enjoy life now.
http://www.mrmoneymustache.com/2011/09/15/a-brief-history-of...
The point being, if you enjoy your lifestyle, and you really enjoy working hard (she defined herself by her work, so there was no other option to her), what is the point of frugality? Why amass a huge bank account just to die and leave it to someone else[2]?
1. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1568150/
2. Some might argue that one ought to save so one's children can get a nice inheritance. I'm not convinced that it's helpful for offspring to get (or expect) a big windfall that they don't have to work for. I suspect some people have an ulterior motive: they use a large inheritance as a way of blackmailing children into taking care of them in their old age. I find that distasteful.
I hope your offspring never have any surprise medical issues or special needs, don't want to go to college, don't have surprise twins when they thought they were done having kids, etc. It is absolutely helpful to e.g. free your grandkids from student debt, and this does not conflict with instilling in them a work ethic.
Why would you not do that if you can. Having money gives your kids access to good education and freedom to stay away from a lot of crap poor kids have to deal with every day. Plus there is no advantage greater in life than getting a good head start over other people. A lot of people spend a big part of their lives just to get a decent start. Look up to this phenomenon called red queens race.
>>I'm not convinced that it's helpful for offspring to get (or expect) a big windfall that they don't have to work for.
That's a wrong way of looking at inheritance. Imagine what you could do in your free time if you had all the money in the world. Sure you could spend it away on wrong things. But you can also work on whatever you want and make a more meaningful difference through your work.
>>I suspect some people have an ulterior motive: they use a large inheritance as a way of blackmailing children into taking care of them in their old age. I find that distasteful.
Without money, you won't be able to take care of yourself. Also you would largely become a burden on your already financially stressed children. At least by having money you are saving them the financial struggle to see you through your old age.
(Not saying I won't want to help out my kids, but I think it's worth questioning / considering these things.)
One can't deny their children the right to a better life, simply because other children don't have it.
This isn't about an unfair award, but about an unfair punishment.
You just wait until you have your own "offspring". Inheriting money won't mean they'll grow up without work ethic -- that only happens when a parent fails to teach their child that skill.
You WILL be giving your child the freedom to explore his or her passion to the absolute fullest, and to arrive at his or her greatest potential.
Most people are not so lucky.
Can't compare her to some poor schmuck slaving away for Amazon (or some such), who most likely is NOT enjoying his lifestyle/work.
If you get run over by a bus and can no longer work, it's nice knowing you can still live decently.
I would like to go back work, but the engineering job market in San Diego is awful. I can afford to be picky on who I want to work for. Needless to say this will extend your job search time with the current market conditions.
It could be that I might just have to retire if conditions remain the same for a long period of time. So be it, I'll just direct my energies to my open source hardware and software projects.
33 * Cost of Living / (Salary - Cost of Living)
Assuming for simplicity 3% real interest on investments once you stop working (which is close enough if you're trying to get out of the rat race quickly), and potentially infinite lifespan.
So if your cost of living is $10k and you earn $100k you get:
330,000 / 90,000 -> less than four years.
Great theory.
I don't want to live on oatmeal and tuna for the rest of my life. (I actually don't think we should be eating tuna at all and have stopped eating it although I love it.)
Now aside from obvious (e.g. kids, as you state) there's also:
* At some point you'll get a $500 optical bill or a $5000 dental bill (or a $50,000 medical bill if you live in the US) -- and let's not even get into chronic conditions.
* You may want to travel.
* At some point there will probably be a major economic shock and you may be utterly screwed. (But hey, so will a lot of people, and you'll be used to it.)
Finally -- you may enjoy working. I do.
While some people go the route of eating oatmeal and tuna every day, there are plenty of routes to financial independence that don't involve living a life devoid of nice things. It's less about never working again and more about having the freedom to choose what you want to do -- whether that's work for yourself without worrying about paying rent or working full time for someone else.
200 CHF for food might sound little but I actually eat way healthier than most of my colleagues. (The last thing you can afford in Switzerland is getting sick.)
There are many reasons why you may not be able to do what you like, let alone doing it for a living.
Being prepared for such things in the future not only saves you from all the trouble, it saves your family too.