I'm obviously a dick because I already sent automated messages to relatives of people in the hack indicating to them that they were potentially cheated on.
Personally I would want to know so I share that information.
Personally I would want to know so I share that information.
Is the judge responsible if the delinquent hangs himself in prison?
We have an actual agreement on this, me and my wife: try not to cheat, but if it happens, do everything to keep the other from knowing.
What you don't know can't hurt you -- or at least that's the basis for our arrangement for monogamy between fallible humans. I've heard many arguments for and against it -- the point is that it's OUR arrangement, and YOU have nothing to do with it.
Let's say your partner cheated on you and they didn't tell you. Let's also say the person they cheated with lied about having an STD.
In this case, I claim that not knowing can not only damage your marriage but also damage your health.
Be careful. We all have secrets.
All I can say is there's going to be a hell of a lot of blackmail. I'm sure there's already a group on IRC organizing blackmail. There's a lot of targets and it's very information rich.