After all, if I split a coin down the middle and took the two halves to different sides of a continent, it wouldn't be surprising if one was found to be heads and one found to be tails.
It would also not be surprising that if I then repainted one of the halves, the other half would be independent of the repainting and the "entanglement" would be broken.
The difference could be simply in that quantum particles behave differently than having only TWO sides to them, like a coin. But the principle is the same ... that the FTL "spooky" communication never happens even between two particles -- rather, they are correlated because were taken from the SAME PLACE at the same time. We just don't understand how their states work, because they're not just one dimensional states.