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Not sure that this deserves to be down voted. If the only reason for not continuing this lifestyle is his wife, doesn't that imply that his wife is being irrational?

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It means his partner has different values and needs and they are compromising as part of the relationship. That is highly rational.

No, it doesn't. It's just as plausible that he's the one being irrational.

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